
Butterfield Stories — Start Small
You may not have noticed, but when the subject of bullying comes up during conversations, people immediately relate a personal experience or one their child may have had. These episodes can stay with us for life. And, while people appreciate my tackling this subject,...

Butterfield Stories — What is Good Behavior
We all know young children must be taught and reminded often of the basic principles of getting along with others. Yet it is one more thing to add to a parent’s busy schedule; however, it can be done by taking a few minutes a day to discuss just one topic on the “What is Good Behavior,” chart — even if the discussion takes place while the children are brushing their teeth or eating breakfast! Post the “What is Good Behavior” chart on the refrigerator or bathroom wall or wherever, and ask the child, “What are we going to practice today?

Butterfield Stories — Bullying
’m very concerned. We’ve got to reach the very young students and help them understand the difference between “fooling around” and bullying behavior. Children need boundaries and do well when they learn what they are. Without them, bullying in elementary schools escalates in middle and high school.